Sunday, December 09, 2007

a perfect day: magic hour at hermosa beach



37 weeks!
sunday, late afternoon, nearly sunset. last night's rains gave birth to one of the most perfect, beautiful, picture-postcard sunny days today, that one can only experience in sunny southern california, crisp, clear, blue, gold, orange and white. that was the color of the beach at hermosa beach, all turquoise and radiant sand, seagulls flying ahead, little kids playing on the pier and sledding down sand dunes. we've got about three weeks to go, and counting. john and i are happy and pleased as punch.

at left, the beach at hermosa, looking south toward palos verdes peninsula in the far background.

baby names and more baby project runway




last night, john and i met up with his old high school buddy, pat, and his wife chris, for dinner at belmont shore in long beach. it was slightly drizzly, rainy, and we had dinner at this lebanese place that's pretty good, sunnin cafe. pat and chris both suggested 'patrick' and 'christopher' as first names for our little boy. hmmm... all great names! names are so important! so hard to choose! but we've decided (i've decided for the both of us, rather) that we're going to let the baby tell us his name when he arrives. so far, john has two favorites, 'donovan' and 'liam,' which are not favorites or first choices of mine. my first name choices are 'callum' which means 'dove' in gaelic... and 'connor'. chime in, people! let's take a vote:

a. donovan
b. liam
c. callum
d. connor

this week, my non-sewing self is happy to say i made this kimono from marthastewart.com. it WAS easy, as they said it would be. i took the time to read the instructions (which i absolutely hate doing) but it worked out in the end. i had a piece of plain muslin, added single bias tape to the neck and as ties, and voila, a kimono!

you can see more of my beginning sewing projects here
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Friday, December 07, 2007

t-shirt into baby pants


t-shirt into baby pants, originally uploaded by deniro and mango.

another pair of cute pants! big thanks go to those sewing bloggers out there in interweb land.

Thursday, December 06, 2007

she's washin' dishes...and baby clothes....she's so ambitious, she even sews

to help with my manic, waiting-for-baby energy, i've taken up sweatshop-style sewing, without patterns, without lessons, just pure gut instinct to make SOMETHING for the baby, by hand. wiht the help of some great sewing bloggers, who seem to be up my alley with their style of 'no stress, no pattern' seamstressing (as i sorely lack any and all sewing technique or actual skill), i've made baby clothes, or rather, pants! i'm pleased as punch, as old t-shirts in the back of my drawer have become little pants for our soon-to-arrive little boy. 24 days to go and counting...

more sewing projects (and cute pics of my cats) can be seen here:


Friday, October 19, 2007

7 months! hooray

just an update: 10 weeks to go, and counting. i'm feeling great, walking, and on a wheat-free, sugar-free diet as prescribed by my midwife. birth, here we come!
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Tuesday, September 18, 2007

25 weeks!


25 weeks!, originally uploaded by deniro and mango.

i just realized i haven't been taking pics of my belly as i should. here i am, with baby in the belly at 25 weeks. 15 weeks to go!

Tuesday, August 28, 2007

babymooning


this weekend, we're off to to this romantic, exotic locale, me and my honey and baby in my belly......

Wednesday, August 01, 2007

dog gone days

we went to the dog beach in palos verdes over the weekend, with fellow beachgoers lia, jack, and dogs sunday and loona. here i am, hiding from the sun under the umbrella as django keeps watch.


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photo: the pregnant me.

Monday, July 30, 2007

get your motor runnin' in san pedro!

my free-wheeling days of walking into odd, sketchy, curiosity-driven places (dive bars), like this cultural landmark in san pedro, a low-brow biker bar, is over. if you do end up at walker's cafe in san pedro, grab a coke and a cheeseburger from the grill at this dilapidated, granny-decorated -interior, drunken-harley-biker crowd gathering place located near the perilous cliffs of pt. fermin lighthouse, all windswept and dramatic overlooking the cool blue pacific. as an 'expectant lady' i've learned there are limits to my dealings at dive bars... oh well. bye bye, dive bars. hello, gymboree.

Tuesday, July 17, 2007

odd cravings report

so guess which one in the house is pregnant having strange cravings?

person y:
XLNT tamales from the deli aisle
avocado ice cream
'light' peanut butter ice cream (1/2 the fat)
bacon, bacon, bacon

person z:
maraschino cherries
pickle juice
crackers
nutella straight from the jar

Friday, July 13, 2007

mr. cherry tomato head


mr. cherry tomato head, originally uploaded by deniro and mango.

take a look at the big schnoz on this cherry tomato that fell off the vine from my tomato garden.

Thursday, July 12, 2007

guess who's coming to town?

*High five to the little squirt! (seen here at about 12 weeks gestation )


*Clarification: That is not a beer bottle in the baby's hand, as some have inquired about this post.

Saturday, March 03, 2007

corneille, my hero!



this guy's story is amazing. a survivor of the rwanda genocide, he lost his family and lived to tell about it, as well as becoming a hot european pop star in france. we'll see more of this guy, for sure. very sad, very triumphant tale.

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

from lax to santiago

santiago day one: November 29, 2006

Chile has the oldest mummies in the world, John says. He's reading the Lonely Planet like it's the Bible, and we're hovering somewhere above the Chilean Andes on our jumbo jet filled with a mostly senior citizen-contingent of travelers, looming high above the clouds of South America, on our way to Santiago, Chile's capitol. As we descend, the pressure in the cabin plugging up my ears, John reads travel tidbits. I am listening to Stevie Wonder's "Isn't She Lovely" on headphones and tap-tap typing for I can no longer sleep on this plane. I'm sitting between John and an older Chileno lady traveler. She has been awfully quiet during the entire trip---no chitchat, no 'How do's' or 'Where are you going, where are you from?' inquiries. Most people don't want to be bothered, I've noticed, on planes. But then again, neither do I.

They've just roused us from a fitful, stuffy pressurized night of overnight sleep on this flight from Dallas to Santiago and we've just finished breakfast---microwaved croissants, orange juice, jam, margarine and weak coffee. The pilot announces that the Santiago airport is a mere 25 minutes away from landing, and that it's a "nice day" today in Chile. I look over and see a lake of clouds floating beneath the plane's wings.

I can wholeheartedly say this trip began with me missing the dogs, Django and Sophia, and my cats, Mango and Deniro terribly and feeling torn up about leaving them. We emailed dog-walker Lance instructions from the terminal at LAX. I can already see Django waiting by the door for us to arrive and Sophia, she's sitting like a queen on the sofa, curled up into a ball on the chaise with the blanket at her feet. I am just a softie when it comes to my pets and animals---yet hoping with all my might that my very white couch remains just so and unsoiled when we return.

John is filling out his customs card as the plane gets ready to land---when the smell of the breakfast cart hits, it's really amusing to see everyone being roused from their slumber by that fresh-from the microwave scent of yeasty croissants---bread has a strange power to get people up. We sit up straight, smooth out our mussy hair, and await breakfast. I have been reading Pedro Neruda's Memoirs, off and on, during the fitful night and feel inspired. Even before we land in Chile, the pages of Neruda's thick memoir open up the country and evoke the landscape: isolated, desolate and impoverished, harsh, windy and brutal yet full of poetry, yet lovingly hopeful toward his fellow man. Most touching are Neruda's descriptions of his wife, Matilde, digging in the garden in their home at the beach town of Isla Negra, where the waters of its shores are, Neruda describes, cold and fresh.

"It may interest no one else, but we are happy. We share the time we have together in long sojourns on Chile's lonely coast.......Now I'm watching her sink her tiny shoes into the mud in the garden, and then she also sinks her tiny hands as deep as the plant has gone down. From the earth---with her feet and hands and eyes and voice---she brought me all the roots, all the flowers, all the sweet-smelling fruits of happiness." (from Pablo Neruda's Memoirs)

Monday, October 23, 2006

more weekend........


magic hour shots on diana's favorite 'backbone' trail at griffith park, sunday afternoon.






























diana models the park.








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weekend!


sophia, running at griffith park.



















kathy and wing, griffith park, hike, friday at dusk.


dinner at la buca with minjohn. very very good italian food, very authentic; the service, well, it is not so good, no? i highly recommend a vist, but make sure you go on a weeknight.
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happy halloween!

LOVE,
me and pammie, pictured here in front of the inflatable plastic halloween display globe at rite aid. Posted by Picasa

Sunday, September 10, 2006

Ice Kiss, Part II

Me and Vivian, a couple of giddy Korean schoolgirls.
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Ice Kiss: A visit to K-town for ice cream sundaes....ass-su-kee-su

Vivian, Wing and I took a jaunt to Ice Kiss on 6th Street in K-town Friday for lunch.
 
 
 
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Friday, July 28, 2006

LA Times Calendar, "Get Past First Stop" Dec. 23, 2004 article





I started writing for the LA Times back in September 2000 after a horrible stint editing websites for a major studio in town (you know the one). This story is one of the last articles i turned in to my editor, a piece for the Calendar section's 'Tell' (LA Times' version of a "Sex and the City"-ish column). I'm proud of this story---it was 'effortless'---not an ounce of deadline panic, worry, writer's block or pressure to produce for a major daily with little time for perfectionist tendencies--it came as easily as the conversation I had with Vivian that day back in December.

The story details how I met John (aka "Josh"), but really, it's an ode to the wisdom and wealth of hilarious material my girlfriends bring to my life. Vivian (whom I've nicknamed Bibimbap, pictured here) in real life is as cheeky and wizened as she seems in the story below; yes, she is ravishing, delightful, talented, intelligent, stylish, child-like and also laugh-out-loud funny. I owe this story to her. Thanks Viv!



December 23, 2004

Get past 'First Stop'
First Stop is the pseudo-campus for scores of the post-college actor, comedian, model, Midwestern set, who arrive in the city not knowing any better.

By Heseon Park, Special to The Times

Sitting under the hazy West Hollywood sunlight, my Italian friend Michaela, a well-traveled expatriate, broke out the reason for our meeting under the soft filter of cafe umbrellas and the glints reflecting off everyone's dark Pradas: "You have to meet Josh," she said, stirring her café au lait.

"Well," I replied — sipping my soy chai and looking at the parade of hip-hugged, spiky-haired, denim-clad Eurocentric types (Valley residents, for all I knew) — "describe him."

"Josh is not your typical L.A. guy," she said in her ennui-inflected European accent, "but he is not a nerd, either."

Meaning: Josh didn't have a screenplay, novel or film in the works, nor was he in a band, AA or Scientology, nor did he regularly employ an agent, manager, publicist, hairstylist or yoga instructor. He had neither head shots stashed in his trunk nor five new premises for the next reality show. Josh, according to Michaela, didn't seem to be suffering from any of the neuroses afflicting residents of this helium-filled "America's Next Top Model" episode of a city.

What sold me, though, was that Josh was not a resident of "First Stop, L.A."

My friend Vivian, herself a First Stop resident, was the first to coin this term. It refers to the area bordered by Santa Monica Boulevard to the north, Wilshire Boulevard to the south, La Brea Avenue to the East and La Cienega Boulevard to the west, populated by industry types and first-time Angelenos.

First Stop, L.A. is the pseudo-campus for scores of the post-college actor, comedian, model, Midwestern set, who arrive in the city not knowing any better. I myself was a victim of First Stop, L.A. After graduating from UCLA, my first real place was a chockablock rental located squarely off Melrose. The area is hip, young, fun. With its revolving door of new entrants and streets teeming with car washes, coffee bars and trendy urbanized joints, First Stop, L.A. represents not only the hopes and aspirations of a legion of transplants but also a segment of dating that gives L.A. a bona fide bad-hussy reputation.

"The area around Urth Cafe is First Stop, L.A.," Vivian says. The Coffee Bean at Fairfax and Sunset is, according to Vivian, "Sooooooo First Stop, L.A.! That whole Virgin Megastore/Crunch area too."

Dating in these parts is all about "eye candy, all image and 'what you can do for me,' " says Vivian, a transplanted New Yorker who aspires to move out of First Stop. "Dating revolves around career. You're either hot and young and look good or a studio executive."

Most people who come to L.A. aren't focused on settling down, says Vivian. "Either you're a writer who's developing a sitcom or you're a producer, director, actor; it's all about what you do." If L.A. is such a toxic dating vending machine full of quick snacks, a city that exists more in the pages of InStyle magazine's list of ins and outs, I took the idea of area and identity into consideration.

Meanwhile, my friends' relationships have migrated eastward. Girlfriends of mine are dating boys who are decidedly outside of First Stop. They reside in the up-and-coming and affordable areas of Lincoln Heights, Highland Park, Eagle Rock, Pasadena and even the South Bay — First Stops for first-time home buyers intent on building nests and not, say, relationships with the doormen at Miyagi's.

"He lives in the 'hood, Lincoln Heights," says my friend Minnie, who's just started seeing a guy named Joe. "He does what he wants, and not just because everyone else is doing it."

That Michaela's available bachelor, Josh, actually lived outside First Stop seemed a refreshing thought. I was curious: He sounded like the kind of guy I'd like to meet. But Michaela warned me, "He is not trying to be cool. He's not trying to look like an actor or anything either."

As in, so Josh probably wasn't the Jude Law look-alike bartender working at Formosa Cafe (a First Stop watering hole), nor was he trying be anything he's not.

Iquickly made a mental log of disasters in my recent dating past: the indie musician living in K-town without health insurance; the artist/painter living in First Stop, L.A.; the aspiring actor from New York City whose greatest role yet has been as a stand-in in a made-for-TV film; the aspiring novelist/barista/future unemployed schmo. Hmm. What did I have to lose?

I guess the parable here is that most guys would score points just by being themselves — to have the courage to live in L.A. and not be sinkholed in someone else's idea of success.

Dating outside of First Stop, L.A., would mean meeting guys who use less product in their hair than I do. Imagine that, a man who doesn't call hair product "product." I told Michaela, "Give the guy my number."

copyright 2004 heseon park